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How to prepare for a home water birth

May 19, 2019

Home water birth

When I was pregnant with my second, I knew I wanted a home water birth, right from the start. With my first, I stood in a single person shower, with the hot water spilling over my contracting tummy and lower back, and ladies? It felt heavenly. I mean, the sense of relief and the ability to relax your body just slightly through those contractions were a godsend. I had a birth plan of no drugs, no intervention with my first. Knowing how much the warm water helped in a shower standing up, I figured being able to relax fully, immersed in water would be that more glorious. It was one of the most ... Read More...

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Filed Under: my .02 Tagged: birth in water, birthing pool, giving birth at home, home birth, how to prepare to give birth at home, water birth

The #Me Too Movement

March 14, 2019

The Me Too Movement  I was reluctant to write about the Me too movement, in any capacity, even though, as a girl mom, it not only concerned me immensely, it intrigued me. What are we teaching our girls? How are we teaching body image? What is acceptable body image and most importantly, what is perceived to be acceptable? How to teach our daughters to embody themselves, own their mantra, their personality and to not let haters hate. But how is too much skin, a too short skirt, a midriff acceptable you ask? Is it even? Is it asking for attention, as so many men and others have vocalized. The ... Read More...

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The Accidental Surrogate: The Final Chapter

February 17, 2019

The Last Chapter She didn't have a birth plan. There was no zen music, no requests or preference on anything except to get this baby out. So on Christmas Eve, when the doctor mentioned the baby's heart rate was dropping and the word C-section was mentioned, she didn't hesitate or argue. It was go time. This was the last chapter. I am jumping ahead a bit. The last week of Darcie's pregnancy was the straw on the camel's back. She was done. Emotionally. Physically. Mentally. Just done. At 39 weeks she had a check up with her OB and it was decided that they would induce her on her due ... Read More...

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Filed Under: Series Tagged: accidental pregnancy, accidental surrogate, adoption, pregnancy, surrogate

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Hi, I’m Erin!

Hi, I’m Erin!

Hey! I’m Erin. I’m a Mommy to 2 beautiful girls who also works full time and believe it or not, go to school part time. Because I thought I wasn’t busy enough with all that, I figured let’s really push my sanity and blog about my nonsense. This is a place of unapologetic truth. I LOVE being a Mommy, but I am human. I don’t glamorize that shit. I live in Canada, British Columbia for all you geographically correct Mofo’s. I love Wine, my kids, Bubble bath and ‘me’ time. Ie: folding laundry while watching Netflix.

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  • How you can, and really SHOULD leave a toxic boss
  • The Mom Group – Your virtual village
  • The ‘M’ Word: Miscarriage
  • How to prepare for a home water birth
  • The #Me Too Movement

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toxic boss

How you can, and really SHOULD leave a toxic boss

I recently started working for a new company. New boss new role, new people and more importantly, new atmosphere, which is amazing by the way. I forgot what it was like to work in such a nurturing, friendly and cohesive workplace. My boss trusts me, ... Read More...

The Mom Group

The Mom Group – Your virtual village

"What’s this rash on my baby?"  "He won’t stop crying, what do I do?" "I am having dark thoughts, I need help. " "My partner doesn’t help." "My baby just did the cutest thing, check out this video." The Mom Group.  Unless you are part of one, ... Read More...

miscarriage

The ‘M’ Word: Miscarriage

Miscarriage. Pregnancy loss. Chemical pregnancy. Still born. You peed on the stick. You saw that pink line. Pregnant.  Maybe you were overjoyed, and it was welcome. Maybe it was a shock and fear and panic ran through you, but once the shock settled ... Read More...

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